Denis Nolan's letter to "A Friend of Medjugorje" Terry Colafrancesco, Caritas of Birmingham, Sterrett, Alabama
Other languages: English, Italiano
Date: March 27, 2010 , Originally published November 25, 2000
Category: Caritas of Birmingham and "A Friend of Medjugorje" Terry Colafrancesco, Sterrett (AL), Alabama
November 25, 2000
It has been brought to my attention that in response to questions coming to Caritas about Fr. Svetozar's recent fax expressing the concerns of the Franciscans of St. James in Medjugorje about your community, people are being told:
1. Sr. Emmanuel has been asked to leave Medjugorje.
Both these statements are not true! Be assured that Sr. Emmanuel is not being asked to leave Medjugorje - even though the leader of her community advised her to take a break for a while (which ended last March 1st) in order to release some of the pressure they were experiencing from the previous pastor. But this belongs to the past.
Furthermore, I had several meetings with the new pastor, Fr. Ivan Sesar, earlier this month in Medjugorje. He is trying his best to do good for Medjugorje - to protect Medjugorje. That is no easy task given the attitude of the local bishop. To be telling people that the priests of St. James are trying to keep Our Lady's messages from getting out is simply not true. Such a statement slanders them. Please see that Caritas stops presenting to people this false information.
Given the attitude of the Bishop of Mostar, the Pastor of St. James is in a very difficult situation! I was impressed by his courage and the purity of his desire to do the right thing towards Medjugorje. Terry, instead of slandering them, we should be doing our best to support these priests. During my meetings with the Pastor there were things I had to be open to ask forgiveness for .... and there were things concerning me and Sr. Emmanuel and Children of Medjugorje that he was misinformed about. There was no substitute, though, for having to sit down together and discuss these matters - being open to the possibility of being corrected. Terry, whether we like it or not, we have to work in communion with the Franciscans of St. James. There is simply no other way!
Have you gone yet to Fr. Svet and asked him exactly what it is, from his perspective, that you are doing wrong... why he wrote that public letter - what it is that in his perspective Caritas needs to change? If not, why haven't you?
One thing Fr. Svet can show you if you care to ask is a letter he received from Dr. Adrian Reimers, who use to have the responsibility for translating into English and distributing "Medjugorje Gebetsaktion", throughout the English speaking world (attached).
Terry, be open to the possibility of being admonished. There has been no one on earth who was able to serve God who didn't receive admonition. (This goes for Jesus, Himself! See Hebrews 5: 7 - 11).
It is a mistake to see every suffering, every difficulty, as an attack from the devil. Note Hebrews 12: 5-14:
Terry, Dr. Reimers is correct in his criticism of your book purporting to give the Gospa's teachings on the Sacrament of Marriage. I lived in a community for 13 years here in South Bend that taught exactly what your book teaches. Such teachings may seem to bear fruit in people's lives for the immediate present - for a couple of years. But the Church has centuries of experience behind her teachings, i.e., her understandings of how rightly to interpret Scripture. In the long run the teachings you are putting forward destroy families..... and will eventually cause young people to leave the church. The community I belonged to still puts forward the teachings you espouse in your book. It has become a cult.
Terry, be humble. Be ready to accept admonition. And your zeal to serve Our Lady will bear much greater fruit.
As we come to the close of this Jubilee Year - respond to the admonition given to us all by Sr. Emmanuel in her November 15th report...
Today Our Lady told us that a priest of the parish of St. James has been born into Heaven and is interceding for us! We are surely entering a new time - a time of Spring. Terry, there is no way to go around the priests. We must work in communion with them. I beg you to go and seek out Fr. Svet, and with all your heart be open to his guidance. The priests of St. James are the shepherds of Medjugorje. Terry, even when Slavko and I disagreed on a particular issue - we were always able to remain in communion as brothers, i.e., everything I was doing was in the light with him. There is no other way!
God bless you,
cc: Marija Pavlovic Lunetti